Darling, what are you thinking about right now? If I would want you to know, I would say it not think about it
Weddings and funerals are the same because I love going but I don't want them to be about me
If she says, "I'm OK," you're fine. If she says, "I'm Fine," You're not OK.
Middle age is when work is a lot less fun and fun a lot more work.